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Girls New Years

2010-01-03T17:05:00.000-08:00

Aubriana

Alina & Brandon

So Sad

2009-12-26T12:35:00.000-08:00

Salvation Army major shot in front of 3 children
By TOM PARSONSASSOCIATED PRESS WRITER
LITTLE ROCK, Ark. -- A Salvation Army worker was shot and killed Christmas Eve in front of his three young children during an attempted robbery outside the charity's community center in North Little Rock, a Salvation Army official said Friday.
North Little Rock police said they were looking for the two men who accosted Salvation Army Maj. Philip Wise outside the community center about 4:15 p.m. Thursday. No arrests have been made.
The two men fled on foot into a nearby housing development, police Sgt. Terry Kuykendall said Friday. Police don't know whether Wise, who was active in the community, knew his attackers, he said.
Wise, 40, had gone to the community center with his children to pick up his wife - also a Salvation Army major - to drive to his mother's home in West Virginia, said Maj. Harvey Johnson, area commander of the Salvation Army. As Wise neared the side door, two men approached.
Both men were carrying hand guns, police said. One demanded money and shot Wise, Pulaski County Coroner Garland Camper told the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette. Wise's wife, Cindy, was inside the center and called 911.
Blood stained the sidewalk outside the center Friday.
The Wises had just adopted their children - ages 4, 6 and 8 - last year, Johnson said. The three were siblings who came from an abusive family. They were receiving counseling after their father's death, he said.
Kuykendall said the children were standing beside their father when he was shot, but there was apparently no interaction between the youngsters and the two men.
Wise had worked for three years in Baring Cross, a low-income neighborhood troubled by gangs and drugs, Johnson said. He ran youth programs, a food pantry and church services.
"He was involved in the fabric of that community in a lot of different ways," Johnson said.
He described Wise as "a big boy" who played "a big old tuba" in a brass ensemble and used his love of music to try help others.
"He encouraged kids in music as an alternative to the life they were living," he said.
Kuykendall said he knew Wise, although they were not close friends.
"Mr. Wise within the last two months had spent so much time raising money so that several hundred children in this community could have a good Christmas, and for this to happen ... on Christmas Eve is just a tragedy," he said.
Wise was originally from Weirton, W.Va., and his wife, Cindy, was from Charleston, W.Va. They met 16 years ago at a Salvation Army school in Atlanta, Johnson said. Both had worked for the Salvation Army ever since.
"He's touched a lot of people," Johnson said. "But who would he have touched if he had been able to live out his career?"

Robby's Story :)

2009-12-18T05:32:00.000-08:00

Robby's NightTrue Story Worth Reading !!!
At the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story. My name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from Des Moines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons-something I've done for over 30 years. Over the years I found that children have many levels of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a prodigy though I have taught some talented students.However, I've also had my share of what I call 'musically challenged' pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a single Mom) dropped him off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys!) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby.But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear him play the piano. So I took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his piano lessons and from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endeavor. As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel but he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces that I require all my students to learn.Over the months he tried and tried while I listened and cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly lesson he'd always say, 'My mom's going to hear me play someday.' But it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always waved and smiled but never stopped in.Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons.I thought about calling him but assumed because of his lack of ability, that he had decided to pursue something else. I also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!Several weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flayer on the upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flayer) asked me if he could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils and because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his mother had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessons but he was still practicing 'Miss Hondorf, I've just got to play!' he insisted.I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be all right. The night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the program before I was to come up and thank all the students and play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the program and I could always salvage his poor performance through my 'curtain closer.'Well, the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing and it showed, then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled and his hair looked like he'd run an eggbeater through it. 'Why didn't he dress up like the other students?' I thought. 'Why didn't his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?'Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #2120 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo. From allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well by people his age. After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo and everyone was on their feet in wild applause.Overcome and in tears, I ran up on stage and put my arms around Robby in joy. 'I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it? 'Through the microphone Robby explained: 'Well, Miss Hondorf, remember I told you my Mom was sick? Well, actually she had cancer and passed away this morning and well. .. She was born deaf so tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special.'There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care, I noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy and I thought to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.No, I've never had a prodigy but that night I became a prodigy . .. Of Robby's. He was the teacher and I was the pupil for it is he that taught me the meaning of perseverance and love and believing in yourself and maybe even taking a chance in someone and you don't know why.Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995. And now, a footnote to the story.If you are thinking about forwarding this message, you are probably thinking about which people on your address list aren't the 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message. The person who sent this to you believes that we can all make a difference. So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice: Do we act with compassion or do we pass up that opportunity and leave the world a bit colder in the process?

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2009-12-17T05:11:00.001-08:00

Once our eyes are opened we cannot pretend we do not know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls knows we know, and holds us responsible to act. Proverbs 24:12

Dinner out with Les's work

2009-12-08T07:36:00.000-08:00

Mom & Maxim

Max

Aubriana

Les

Didnt take pics of Alina and Brandon ? Not sure why, I thought I did. We had a great meal and got some wonderful gifts :) Thanks you Major Jeff & Mrs. Linda. We are so lucky to have you both.

Sudden Loss

2009-12-05T18:34:00.000-08:00

I learned that sometimes "not knowing" is all I know.

I learned that I have a lot more to learn about myself.

I learned that I can blame anything & everything until I run out of breath-but I become empowered when I quit asking "why me" & start asking " what will I do with this?"

I learned there is nothing as precious as right now- even when "now" doesn't seem precious.

I learned the I cannot make up for today bu living or working "harder" or "doing more" or "spending more time" tomorrow.

I learned that I can never know what the day may bring, but it is up to me at its close, to know what the day brought.

I re-learned the value of a moment.

Just for Fun

2009-12-05T17:50:00.000-08:00

Aubriana & Aliana

Maxim

Hillary

Sasha

Noah

Today we were invited for cookies, crafts, and photos with Santa :) I think we all have a good time !!

THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD

2009-11-29T09:30:00.000-08:00

The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want;
He makes me lie down in green pastures.
He leads me beside still waters;
He restores my soul.
He leads me in paths of righteousness for His name's sake.
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil;
for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life;
and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Psalm 23

Busy

2009-11-25T16:29:00.001-08:00

Some Friends who got Married this month, Love them bunches!!!!

The man who holds me up when I lean too much.

My Son T.J. 7/31/85 - 10/21/09 He and I were in the car just left Dairy Queen for son yummy ice cream:)

South America

2009-11-04T18:48:00.000-08:00

Well not much to report about it with the exception its still in the same place it was last time I looked on the map :) I'm put out with it and cant say whey ! But if they could eat their young they most likely would!!!!!!!

Nhikko has a broken leg with a full cast on it.

I am tired.

Les is tired.

Trying to find homes for kids, not ours, other children (disruptions).

My good friend Nahda has her new son M coming from NY. Thanks to me :) How wonderful and exciting...I matched them, it will be nice to see what I like to do. Find families for children. I can see them in the Real life, not just photos :)

I don't know where the year went, and have so much to reflect on :( My big boys, wanting to move, new Maddox coming, It will get better with time, my older children who need to go on like all of us.

Most people who look at our family they wonder how and why we keep going on, what can you do. Stop, drop & roll. And when you get up know that your Faith in God will and can bring you through tough times in life. Most families don't have the loss of 1 child then another 14 months later. But we did, and we are, and we will get through it. Day by Day, because Faith is something someone cant give you. I love an awesome God, I hope you do too.

Some good friends sent a card and inside they wrote all I can say is "this sucks" Yep it sure does :)

God bless you all,
Melonie

Prop us up!!!!! Thanks Val

2009-11-02T17:33:00.000-08:00

LORD PROP US UP..... Every time I am asked to pray, I think of the old deacon who always prayed, 'Lord, prop us up on our leanin' side.' After hearing him pray that prayer many times, someone asked him why he prayed that prayer so fervently. He answered, 'Well sir, you see, it's like this ... I got an old barn out back. It's been there a long time; it's withstood a lot of weather; it's gone through a lot of storms, and it's stood for many years.. It's still standing. But one day I noticed it was leaning to one side a bit. So I went and got some pine poles and propped it up on its leaning side so it wouldn't fall. Then I got to thinking about that and how much I was like that old barn. I've been around a long time. I've withstood a lot of life's storms. I've withstood a lot of bad weather in life, I've withstood a lot of hard times, and I'm still standing too. But I find myself leaning to one side from time to time, so I like to ask the Lord to prop us up on our leaning side, 'cause I figure a lot of us get to leaning at times. Sometimes we get to leaning toward anger, leaning toward bitterness, leaning toward hatred, leaning toward cussing, leaning toward a lot of things that we shouldn't. So we need to pray, 'Lord, prop us up on our leaning side, so we will stand straight and tall again, to glorify the Lord.'' If you stare at this barn for a second you will see who will help us stand straight and tall again. If you wish to, pass this on to others who might need Propping Up. Thank you Lord for always propping me up.

Fun Friday

2009-10-31T13:12:00.001-07:00

Fall fun for the family at Maxim's school. Aliana & Aubriana went and had fun too!!!

2009-10-30T19:18:00.000-07:00

A Mother only grieves because she LOVES so deeply.

T.J.

2009-10-30T19:04:00.000-07:00

Time

2009-10-30T18:40:00.000-07:00

I needed time, time for it to become real! I miss him so, I still cant say it. I just think Ill rest for several months before I open up that can of worms. I'm still soaking up Justin being gone, now T.J........ Awwwwww, where to go and what to do from now on. How do I go from having 5 big kids at Christmas down to 3. I have got cards, flowers, monies, emails, phone calls. Its all so nice, I want to Thank everyone. We are going to get through this and still be somewhat together in our minds when its all done and said!!! But for now I think I'm the coco bird who is in flight.
Hugs, Melonie

2009-10-30T18:34:00.000-07:00

George Thomas "TJ" Doughty, Jr.July 31, 1985 - October 21, 2009
Funeral services for George Thomas "TJ" Doughty, Jr. of Mountain Home, AR, will be 11:00 A.M. Monday, October 26, 2009 at Salvation Army Chapel, with Major Jeff Daniel officiating. Visitation will be from 2-4 P.M., Sunday, October 25 at Kirby & Family Funeral Home. TJ died Wednesday, October 21, 2009 in Mountain Home at the age of 24. He was born Wednesday, July 31, 1985 in Denver, Colorado, son of George Thomas and Melonie Gibbens Doughty, Sr. George lived in Mountain Home since 2004 moving from Kansas City, Kansas. He enjoyed camping, fishing and building hot rod cars. TJ enjoyed mathmatics, he was a "Numbers Person". TJ is survived by his mother, Melonie (Les) Thompson of Mountain Home, AR, father, George Thomas Doughtry, Sr. of Kansas City, KS, paternal grandmother, Elizabeth Doughty of Mountain Home, AR, 6 brothers, Michael Arens of Kansas City, KS, Dylan Hargis, Sasha Thompson, Nhikko Thompson, Max Thompson and Noah Thompson all of Mountain Home, AR, 5 sisters, Tiffany WIlliams of Kansas City, KS, Jamio Langford, Aubri Thompson, Aliana Thompson and Hillary Thompson, all of Mountain Home, AR, niece, Briana and nephew, Maddox, numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. He was preceded in death by his brother, Justin, paternal grandfather, Robert Doughty and maternal grandparents Sylvia and Walter White. Arrangements are by Kirby & Family Funeral & Cremation Services.
Services
VisitationSunday October 25, 2009, 2:00 P.M. - 4:00 P.M. at Kirby & Family Funeral Home Chapel Click for Map and Directions
Funeral ServiceMonday October 26, 2009, 11:00 A.M. at Salvation Army Church Click for Map and Directions

Road Trip

2009-10-10T12:29:00.001-07:00

We had to go to Kansas for a funeral this week. Its so nice to see Family but hate it was at such a sad place. My Aunts husband passed away, 47 years is a long time to be married. I'm so sure she is feeling lost at this moment in her life. She cared for my Mother while she was sick for several years. You forget how much family sacrifices for each other. I love you Aunt Pat for who you were to my Mom and my Daughter.

Hugs, Melonie

Just 4 Fun

2009-10-04T18:03:00.000-07:00

The girls had a Hawaiian dance to go to on Friday, then they went for a sleep over at friends houses, then a Birthday party. We had a busy weekend but got lots done. ALMOST ready for winter. Heading to South America in October :) I cant wait!! Got all the kids costumes ready with the exception of the big girls. So, I'm on it.

Hugs, Melonie

Powerful

2009-09-25T19:17:00.000-07:00

Father, in the Name of Jesus, bless me even while I'm reading this prayer and bless the one that sent this to me in a special way.

Open doors in our lives today, Save and set free!
Give us a double portion of your Spirit as we take back everything that the devil has stolen:
****Emotional Health****Physical Health****Finances****Relationships****Children**** Jobs****Homes****Marriages I cancel every plot, plan and scheme the enemy has devised against us in the NAME OF JESUS.And I declare: NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST US WILL PROSPER.
I speak LIFE into every dead situation. And, I thank You that nothing is over until YOU say it's over!

Speak prophetically into our lives and to our situations:****our households are blessed; **** our health is blessed;**** our marriages are blessed;**** our finances are blessed;**** our relationships are blessed;**** our businesses are blessed;**** our jobs are blessed;**** our children are blessed;**** our grandchildren are blessed;**** our parents are blessed;**** our siblings are blessed;**** our ministries are blessed;**** our decisions are blessed;**** our friends are blessed.**** Mortgages are paid and debts canceled;

*****our hearts' desires are on the way;
According to YOUR perfect will and plan for our lives.
YOU SAID YOU'D NEVER FORSAKE US!

IN JESUS' NAME! AMEN!Say this prayer, and then send it to EVERYBODY YOU KNOW.
Within hours countless people will have prayed for you, and you will have caused a multitude of people to pray to God for each other.

'Safety is not the absence of danger, butis the presence of God' A child asked Jesus.... How much do U love me? Jesus replied, 'I love you this much.' and He stretched His arms to the cross and died for us.

Our Fun Months

2009-09-06T18:08:00.000-07:00

Well, To put it short and simple we have been soooo busy. What a summer, Weddings, lake days, Boys & Girls, Football and just fun....Have lots still to do. And somethings have changed and were not done yet. Hope you enjoy our photos, not all of the kids but some. Aubri is back home and doing soo good :) God is good all the time !!!!!!!

Hugs, Melonie

Life

2009-08-18T12:13:00.000-07:00

Life is what you make it! Right, Well sure if it was all about you, but it is not. Its all about lots of other things too! For the last year I have become a Mother to a child who has passed away!!!!!
And, I am always reminded of it daily, for my heart breaks for him. But, as I look back over this first year of grief, I began to see patterns in my choices and new principles about life.

The principal is this: beauty can help to bring healing- Your children you still have, rainbows, mountains, your spouse, woolly lambs, fresh strawberries, homemade ice cream, old friends, new friends, church family, a wet kiss from a 4 year old, a wedding, and new grandchild, a hug from a stranger, a brisk walk, a phone call from an old friend, brokenness, appreciation for each other, loving God in the mist of all of my loss.

I'm forever grateful to all of the people who love us. And I'm forever grateful to my children who have lost someone they too love.
I hope you are well,
All my love, Melonie

Its A Boy

2009-07-22T12:32:00.000-07:00

Baby makes 4 :) I'm just jumping for Joy, Its a Boy. The perfect family Jake, Tiffany, Briana & Baby Boy.......

CONGRATULATION'S TO YOU!!!!!!!!

We love all 4 of YOU,

Les & Mom

Ouch That Hurt

2009-07-19T19:12:00.000-07:00

Well today I got a call from someone who had a basket full of Bad News for me!! I cant share about what, but its about international adoption. I don't know how to respond to any of it except "Press on" God never fails me, He never has left me when I ask for him to make a way for me. So I ask God again to press on for me, make the water still so I can cross, take what I have claimed mine and return back home safe and sound. Press on God, make the way so it can be for your glory only. Press on so a child will live not die! Press on God, claim what is right and just!

I love the Lord, and he never fails us, if it is in your heart then it will be. Please pray for this situation to be resolved, that hearts will be softened and his will be done. I have nothing to offer this situation but to pray!!!!!! PLEASE Pray with me.

Thank you, Melonie

For All of You

2009-07-11T06:44:00.000-07:00

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass It's about learning to dance in the rain. Ephesians 5:15 encourages us to 'be very careful how you live, making the most of your time.' Each and every one of us is going through tough times right now, but God is getting ready to bless you in a way that only He can.Keep the faith. This prayer is powerful, and prayer is one of the best gifts we receive. There is no cost but a lot of rewards. Let's continue to pray for one another. Father, I ask You to bless my friends, relatives and those that I care deeply for, who are reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of Your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask You to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them Your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through Your grace. Where there is need, I ask you to fulfill their needs. Bless their homes, families, finances, their goings and their comings. In Jesus' precious name. Amen.

Thanks, Charlotte
Hugs, Melonie

The Queen

2009-07-10T10:33:00.001-07:00

I sent her a message at 10:13 yesterday that said Happy Bday I love y. She sent me 1 that said I'm not born yet!!!! For 26 Years I call her at 10:54 and sing her Happy Birthday.... Yesterday was no exception....What a great Daughter, Friend, Mother.

Her new life will start soon. I wish her so much luck in life.

I hope her Brother will start his new life one day. I just am not sure when that will be. Just keep praying:)

Hope you all are having a happy day. We have some fun planned for the kids this weekend.

Hugs, Melonie

Boys!!!!!

2009-07-08T13:37:00.000-07:00

Oh look.... The TJ I know, the one before is car crash. Went to visit him today:) He looked so good!!!! It was nice to see normal again. Glad you are on your way to Being well:>)

Hugs, Mom

Photos

2009-07-04T09:36:00.000-07:00

On of my Favorites of Justin!!!! Miss you buddy!!!! Hope everyone has a safe & happy day.

Hugs, Melonie

Jami & TJ

2009-07-04T06:29:00.000-07:00

Look what I found on Jami Lee's page.... A good photo of T.J.(George) I was sick last week so I couldn't go and see him so Ill go this week!!!!

Happy 4th to everyone...

6 years

2009-07-01T08:26:00.000-07:00

Look its Maxs Mom & Dad at church.... He had to take our 6th year photo with us. Hugs, Melonie

Camp Rocks

2009-07-01T08:09:00.000-07:00

Camp was a blast. I had 13 girls from our church... I had the best time ever. 6 days from home was nice too. This has been a busy as a bee summer. and still lots more to come. hope your summer is been as good as ours!!!!

Hugs, Melonie

Road trip

2009-07-01T07:53:00.000-07:00

We went to fort smith, Russellville, Conway and back home. 14 hours on the road... The kids were perfect and we got to see our great friends Wllie & Lori. And the bunch they have. GREAT PEOPLE who do soooo much for children. Thanks for the chairs for Nicaragua.

Hugs, Melonie

Bridal Shower

2009-07-01T07:45:00.000-07:00

It was all so perfect for her day:) My good friend Rhonda with her. She looks so great huh. I'm so lucky to have a wonderful Daughter like her. Love you Tiffany,

Mom

Alinas Birthday

2009-07-01T07:39:00.000-07:00

Its a whole new world now 13...... MMMMMmmmmm go away boys:)

Not the best photos I have taken. lol lol

Mel

Graduation

2009-07-01T07:35:00.002-07:00

Well as you can see he DID IT!!!!!!!

And we are soooo excited for him.

Memorial Day

2009-05-22T05:10:00.000-07:00

A place to rest, a place for Dad to be at peace. A happy place I think. A place I have always enjoyed going to. So many of His friends didnt fly home with him, they came in a box, they lost it all for you and I. I hope you will Thank the Men and Women who serve you and I everyday. They have no easy task, they give up time with the ones they love to make our world a better one. I hope you will Thank them and Think of the families who dont have the loved one that is not with them this weekend. They do so much for us when we do so little for them. May God Bless each of them this day and everyday.

Melonie & Family

No Time To Blog

2009-05-12T19:32:00.000-07:00

Prom!!! They were so silly!!!!!

Ive not posted in "to long" But I have been so busy.... 7 kids to the Dentist, 7 + Doctor appointments, papers for 3 care aids for the summer, taking the girls to camp in Oklahoma in June for a week. Had a sale, had so much rain I about bought an Ark. Work, work, work. Not to mention paperwork, and more paperwork. Had to change our kids Doctor for the one we have is moving:) Oh Boy!!! I'm having more fun than I could imagine. Graduation will be the 22 of May so you can see I have a full plate. Hope everyone had a wonderful and Joyful Mothers Day.

With that said Ill say no more about mine:) I'm ready to go to South America and have a mini vacation. I need to sweat off some pounds. Tiffany and Baby are well and Jake will get off his cloud someday! Hes a Joy that's for sure..... The Bride got her dress and is happy with it. I'm glad she didn't make us take out a second mortgage for it LOL. Life is busy, summer is coming, and I'm not ready yet so I press on. Dirt work is done, but the finishing guy cant start his part and get the new play area ready because IT WONT STOP RAINING!!!!!! So, we wait, not something I'm good at.

Anyone want to adopt from China?????????? Go check out Madison Adoptions, they have lots of kids who NEED HOMES. And they are a great agency to work with. Adoption Hope International has a new Mexico program too. This is my Agency we used for 4 of our International Adoptions, check them out too!

Hope you all are well, Hug your kids, you never know if it will be the last time:) Please continue to pray for T.J. he is not doing well and by no means living a healthy life.

Hugs,

Melonie

The Cats out of the Bag

2009-04-11T17:39:00.001-07:00

Its Official, They are to be Married July 31,2009. Yes, we are excited for both of them, But more excited we about the new baby that will come in November! Congratulations, Jake & Tiffany!!!! We Love you both and wish you joy all of the days of your life.

Les & Mom

Cake Mixes & Toxin

2009-04-11T16:58:00.001-07:00

Just want to warn you !!!!!

Subject: Cake Mixes & Toxin-PLEASE READ

A student at HBHS (high school) had pancakes this week and it almost became fatal. His Mom (registered nurse) made him pancakes, dropped him off at school and headed to play tennis. She never takes her cell phone on the court but did this time and her son called to say he was having trouble breathing. She told him to go to the nurse immediately and proceeded to call school and alert the nurse. The nurse called the paramedics and they were there in 3 minutes and worked on the boy all the way to the hospital. He came so close to dying. Evidently this is more common then I ever knew. Check the expiration dates on packages like pancakes and cake mixes that have yeast which over time develop spores. Apparently, the mold that forms in old mixes can be toxic! Throw away ALL OUTDATED pancake mix, Bisquick, brownie mixes etc you have in your home.You can check this website....... http://www.snopes.com/medical/toxins/pancake.aspP. S. You might want to tell this to your children, grandchildren, nephews, nieces and anyone else who keeps these types of mixes in the cupboard.

Happy Birthday Max

2009-04-07T20:36:00.001-07:00

Look who's 4 today!!!!!!!

I have new photos but didn't get them loaded since I spent 4.5 hours in the ER with him tonight:) He fell at church and put his front teeth threw his bottom lip!!!!

Ouch, Never a dull moment with the Mad Max.

Poor Daddy, his BP was up just a little when we arrived home.

Hugs, Mel

Aliana

2009-04-04T17:02:00.001-07:00

Today, I stuck my foot in my big mouth!!!!! Hers how it went:

Me- you look so skinny in the photos.

A- yes, because me no eat in orphanage.

Me- I'm sorry

A- every night me cry for my family.

Me- I'm sorry, don't you talk to your sisters & Brat on the computer.

A- Me no cry this family, me cry for my orphanage family, this my family Mommy.

Me- I'm sorry

A- Me live in orphanage since me 4, this my family!!!!

Me- Big Gulp, so sorry Aliana. You Mommy is stupid sometimes, I don't know what I'm saying. Its okay, I will take you to the Doctor, he can give you medication to help you feel better.

A- Mommy stop it, I do feel better. Me have American family. But I miss my orphanage family....this my family when I was little girl.

Me-I go to the bathroom to cry, Because we think all is well, and it is. But before it was not. I just love her, it shows you how deep her hurt is. She is so good, she never acts out, never talks back, never is ungrateful, she is just simple. They all are so simple.

Hugs, Melonie

The House of Sick

2009-04-03T18:03:00.000-07:00

Oh what great fun!!!!!! Max is going on day 4 and Sasha is on day 3! And me I'm on like hour 23...... YUK, I hate being sick.......I'm a cry baby. No to mention Prom is tomorrow for Dylan. He got his oh so Hot Tux, I will post pictures of him and his Girl Olivia. Still no words of wisdom from TJ. I did try and call him but his girls cell phone is not working. Left a message at his home but no response. Please pray for the two of them.
Goodnight,
Me

I have the best news ever to share BUT........ Waiting to tell everyone at Easter. Did I tell everyone I'm going to South America sooooooon.

Plesae Help Charlotte

2009-04-03T17:04:00.000-07:00

PLEASE HELP US WIN A CAR ! VOTING STARTS APRIL 3RD- APRIL 8TH !!!!You can go to this link ~ http://cfc.katv. com/external. cfm?p=cars% 20for%20a% 20causeOr go to www.katv.com , go to Marketplace, then click on Cars for a Cause !You can vote every day/per computer/per 24 hours for our family !Please share this with everyone, email every one !Our car has 255,000 miles on her now, and she has her trunk ducktaped down, and the power steering is gone ! There front grid blew off and the little side mirrors are missing !!We need a new car !Thanks, Charlotte, Rebekka, Raeghan, Riley, Rachael and Katya

Please Read & Help my Friend!!!!

2009-04-01T18:33:00.000-07:00

Where do I begin ? Well, about a month or so ago my good friend, Rosemary told me she wanted to nominate me to win a car from Cars for a Cause through KATV channel 7 here in Arkansas. She had to write a 500 word essay on me and how we needed a new car ! Well, we do, she is old, she has been good, but it is time for a new one, and currently an added car payment to the monthly bills doesn''t look like it could happen now. She has 254,000 miles on her, her trunk is ducktaped down, her driver mirrors are missing, her front grid blew off in the wind one day, and her power steering is shot ! With my job before as a hospice nurse, and now as an infusion nurse I put alot of miles on my car ! I was so amazed last week to get THE CALL ! I think it as as exciting as getting a referral call ! That I was chosen as one of the 5 finalists ! Just to be chosen is an honor ! This past Wednesday, this wonderful camera man, Tony came to the house and he videotaped me and the kids and we told our story ~~~~ the story of our car, of my life as a Mom, the story of my love and passion and my mission to adopt a few children from the lives they were born into ! The story of my Mom, and what she means to us. I am going to post some wonderful pics from that day !Our video aired on Monday and it can been on the KATV website !Then comes YOUR PART ~ THE VOTING BEGINS APRIL 3RD- APRIL 8TH !If you go to www.katv.com click on Marketplace on the top right, click on CARS FOR A CAUSE and look under nominees ! You can vote 1 vote per 24 hours per computer every day til the 8th at noon !The people (YOU) get one vote, and then the judge's get the other votes !PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY TO GET THE PEOPLE'S VOTE ! Please email this to everyone you know, send my blog out to the world please ! Then on April 10th LIVE at their home KATV will announce the winner at their doorsteps ! When I first heard of it, I though me, why me ? There are 4 other people out there who need a car too. I am so thrilled to be picked as 1 of 5, WOW ! Reality is ........ we need a new car too !!!! Please pray, please share, please VOTE April 3rd - 8th on every computer !!!!!!Thanks, Charlotte, Raeghan, Riley, Rachael and soon Katya waiting to come home !

Thinking of You!!!

2009-03-28T17:09:00.000-07:00

I'm just thinking of you! Monday is just another day to the world, but to your Mom its not. I miss you, you will of been 22...... We all miss and love you Justin.

All our Love......

2009-03-28T16:55:00.001-07:00

.Subject: 5 minute cake mug.
5 MINUTE CHOCOLATE MUG CAKE
4 tablespoons flour
4 tablespoons sugar
2 tablespoons cocoa
1 egg
3 tablespoons milk
3 tablespoons oil
3 tablespoons chocolate chips (optional)
a small splash of vanilla extract
1 large coffee mug
Add dry ingredients to mug, and mix well. Add the egg and mix thoroughly. Pour in the milk and oil and mix well. Add the chocolate chips (if using) and vanilla extract, and mix again.
Put your mug in the microwave and cook for 3 minutes at 1000 watts (high). The cake will rise over the top of the mug, but don't be alarmed! Allow to cool a little, and tip out onto a plate if desired.
EAT! (this can serve 2 if you want to feel slightly more virtuous). And why is this the most dangerous cake recipe in the world? Because now we are all only 5 minutes away from chocolate cake at any time of the day or night!

Giving Thanks

2009-03-25T19:20:00.000-07:00

"SO THIS IS LOVE"
At the end of the day I'm sure she will ask herself this very question, So this is how love feels. A family to call my own, parents that love me, brothers and sisters. Its the WOW look I see in her. The smile from the inside out. Its a nice feeling to know you did make a difference. But not without a Hugh loss before.

Are journey to Aliana was one of chance and of choice. I met her in March 2008 when I went alone to Estonia to adopt our now 3 year old son Maxim, she was a child God placed on my heart, and I was willing to listen to that quiet voice and not ask why me. I met her, fell in love with her, rushed home to tell my Husband about her, and just knew she would be our Daughter. How wonderful, how perfect, how great. We ask our Church to pray for us, we worked hard to raise the money for her adoption, we saved, we saved, we saved.

Since we had just done a adoption in December 2006 and a adoption in March 2008 we had lots of money we had paid out and we were struggling to keep up with what we needed. But we did it, and we were moving forward faster than we thought we could. Great news, everyone was so excited! And then our life stopped. Our world was shattered. We lost our son Justin, he passed away. What do you do, how do you go on, how do you go on. In August when he passed away all we saved was gone. We used it to help pay for his funeral. How do you think about adoption after a loss such as this.

You want the world to stop, you want all to be still, but life goes on, you find new in a life lost and you carry them with you everyday. A child waits foundation saved this adoption, without the funds we received for our airfare and lodging we would not of been able to complete this adoption. And she would of never of felt what she feels, her life was empty and sad. The honeymoon is over, she had been home for 5 months now. I don't know what I ever did with out her, I hope all families will look at an adoption of an older child. She is such a joy to parent, we have such a wonderful relationship with her. I tell people all the time, we are the lucky ones not her. She is a constant reminder why life does go on, even when you wish it wouldn't. I know Justin would of loved to learn Russian, I know he would of loved to hear all about her country, and I know he would of wanted us to go and adopt her.

For all you do for the children we Thank you, and for all you did for our family Thank you will never be enough.
God Bless each of you,
The Thompson Family
Aliana home December 2008

Please Pray for TJ

2009-03-23T18:26:00.000-07:00

We have had a busy day and one of Faith. It is so great to see the lord at work. It was nice to feel his arms around us. We now are asking for you to pray for T.J. He is my oldest birth child and in the last few months almost lost his life to drugs 2 times. You cant change someone who wishes not to change. I feel its time for us as a family to get real about the choices he is making. I have informed him that since his girlfriend has chosen to sign him out of the hospital I will no longer be responsible for his life. The cold hard truth is hes an addict in all the worst ways. I have to look at what I can do not what I cant. Since his car accident he has become hooked on pain pills, he drinks way toooooo much and I think his head is now broken along with the 18 bones he broke in the wreck.

We are not the only family who has this choice to make. There are many families we know who have this to deal with. Its a bummer, and we are going to pray for Gods help. With God all things are possible. Justin's Birthday is in 1 week. He will be alive in my heart. I hope any of you who have a loss such as ours you may be at peace.

All our love.
Melonie

Yet another Loss

2009-03-23T07:49:00.000-07:00

Funeral arrangements for 55 year old Dr. Yoland Maxella Condrey-Tinkle of Mountain Home are pending at Kirby and Family Funeral and Cremation Services. Dr. Yoland Maxella Condrey-Tinkle died yesterday at Hospice of the Ozarks Hospice House.

WHAT AN AMAZING LADY!!!!!! Friday I was able to see her, she was resting when I arrived, but Sasha & Nhikko sent her some spring flowers and photos of them. She is a Hugh loss to our community. She has an adopted child and was a advocate for all families who wanted to adopt. She became ill last year and was such a fighter. She left this world singing " Ill fly away" and then she waved..... Such a strong Christian woman. She is an example for all of us.

Today we have another funeral to attend, our own Mrs. Jean at church passed on Saturday at 5 am. Then we have Mikes families services this evening.

I'm feeling overwhelmed with it all, but so many people helped in the time of our loss. It is now time for us to give back as a family.

Please pray for the children who are left behind, they need to feel the Holy Spirit today!
Hugs, Melonie

Please Pray

2009-03-18T18:07:00.000-07:00

The names of an 11-year old Mountain Home girl who was killed and three other people who were injured in a two-vehicle collision on State Highway 5 South this morning have been released by the Arkansas State Police. Kylie Gray, who was a fifth grader at Norfork Elementary School, was killed in the 7:21 a.m. accident. Injured were her mother, 32-year old Elizabeth Gray, who was the driver of one of the two vehicles, as well as 8-year old Sonya Gray and the driver of the other vehicle.

This is the news we received today. The Grandfather of this little girl works on our land in the summer time. I ask you lift this family up to our Father in Heaven. I ask you pray for all of them. Their is no loss worse than the loss of a child.
Will you please pray with us,
Regards, Les & Melonie

Diet

2009-03-01T12:06:00.000-08:00

Yes, I'm on a diet. I have gained many pounds since I have this easy job working for MRDD waiver. I work three (3) 12 hour shift Monday at 7am to Tuesday at 7 pm. I'm not lazy and I go all the time but while I'm going I'm eating!!!!! So Ive picked up 13 extra pounds. For Christmas we had someone buy us professional family photos. Ive not even set up a date because I don't feel like Me. So, I'm on a diet with walking 3 miles 3 times a week. Hope to do some great spring photos.
Have a great day,
Melonie

Truth

2009-02-26T07:15:00.000-08:00

Telling the truth for some people is hard to do! I know this because I have a child that struggles with this issue. This person is always sick, always on drama mode, always telling a lie. I hate this with all of my heart. I hate to be told a lie. I have never been a perfect person, mother, friend, roll model, or a perfect christian! I seek to be a better person and a better christian. I have praised God in all of my last years struggles. My oldest son who was in a automobile accident and was airlifted to a hospital 2.5 hours away, my son Justin who passed away on Aug. 18,2008 just 2 days before the 5 year anniversary of my fathers death. I love my God and I love my children. But my cup is full with this junk, and its high time this child GROW UP. I have talked with 2 different Doctors and I have been told to put the truth in this persons face in the hope this person will stop. Its so hard to give love to a lie! I'm sooo frustrated with children in the world today. They think we are to carry them forever???? I didn't have my Mother carry me forever since she passed away when I was 11. WHEW, I feel so much better to get this off my chest!!!
Hope you don't have this problem too but I know life is not perfect so I'm sure some of you do.
Hugs, Melonie

Sasha

2009-02-26T06:50:00.001-08:00

Hes a crazy boy that's for sure. He went to get his test for his allergy issues. Boy that was sooo much fun. I know I look forward to 100+ shots.

The Drs. office called this am. We will start shots next week, every week for 6 months. Then we will see if they are helping and decide to continue. For the 2 years we have had Sasha he has been the green eyed monster not to mention the nose. So lets hope that we didn't do this for nothing!

Last week Nhikko had to go to ACH for a upper GI, It came back great. Then on Monday Nhikko went back to ACH with Daddy since I had to work to meet with the Pulmonary Doctor. It was such good news I wanted to cry.

His lungs are great but his tubes to the lungs keep a wet infection in them... So we have a plan of action with the hope this will keep us out of the Hospital and him well.

This has been a crazy month for us and I hope it will slow down. But most likely not. ACH is a 3.5 hour drive 1 way for us. then wait to see the Doctor then drive home. It makes for a long day. In April we have 4 appointments in 1 week.... with different children.

And I plan to leave for Nicaragua soon. Yes, I'm busy. So this is why I have had no time to post.

Thinking of you all, Melonie

BUSY< BUSY< BUSY<

2009-02-25T09:14:00.001-08:00

Did I say I have been Busy!!!!! My Brother and his girl friend came down for a weekend, trying to clean up after the ice storm, building new rabbit cages, cleaning out the pole bard, and getting ready for a big moving sale in March, finishing up on Hillary and Noah's adoption and then looking at a home to buy in town and selling this home or might just rent it out......... And buying a new Van for ME!!!!!!! And donating the blue car to the Church for someone who needs it. We were going to give it Dylan but ???????? He cant have it now.

I know the economy has just been the pits for lots of us so we are stepping out in faith with all we are wanting to do. We will see what the Lord gives us and be happy with it. Just some photos to share!!

Hugs to all, Melonie

Mr. Max

2009-02-06T18:56:00.000-08:00

The mad man had a operation today. He had tubes put in his ears, and he was a trooper. Never even had 1 tear. He was bouncing off the walls when he got home. So much for taking a nap and him feeling tired LOL LOL LOL

Melonie

Ice storm

2009-02-06T18:39:00.001-08:00

We had a nasty storm dump some ice on us. We have never been off this bad. Nhikko was in the Hospital for 5 days. All of the children were home sick. The roads were a mess. We live out of town and had to cut our way out of the drive just to get Nhikko to the Hospital, no phones were working so no 911. WOW..... it was a bummer. The kids and I stayed home in the Barn where the wood stove was for 1.5 days. Then my Hubby came to save us. I did try and move my car but it slid down the hill :( Duhhhh not 4 wheel drive.....

Thank God we all are home and have power, some homes will wait as long as the middle of MARCH!!!!!!!! I would be a crazy lady.

Hugs, Melonie

Noah at ACH

2009-01-25T14:01:00.000-08:00

We took Noah to ACH for a Nero visit and so we went to visit my good friend Charlotte who is in the process of adopting a very lucky girl named Sasha. Sammi drove with us and we had a long but fun day. Alina is friends with Charlotte's new Daughter. How nice for them to meet again in America. Hugs, Mel

Kansas

2009-01-25T13:47:00.001-08:00

Did we have a great trip:) Yes, we did. Went out for dinner, and my Brother and his kids, mom, and Girlfriend came. Went to the Legends mall!!! Ate way toooo much when I was there and went to see my Dad in Leavenworth National Cemetery. I do miss Kansas because I could just go and sit and enjoy the sun and be next to him:) My GB is the most wonderful thing ever, and it was nice to just have a break.

Hugs, Melonie

Hope you survived Christmas

2008-12-28T18:57:00.000-08:00

We are so greatful for all we received as a family. We bought no gifts for our younger children :) Our church did it for us :>) We did buy for the older ones and Ms. Briana the wonderful GB. And no she calls me Nonnie not granny!!!! The girls and I will be going to Kansas for a visit with Tiffany and Briana. Dylan will go and visit his other siblings and his Dads family.

Les and the boys will be home to spend New Years with each other. I'm in for a week of fun and some down time with us girls. Tiffany and I will be taking the girls out so Ill take photos and share when I get back.

Maxim has been started on some medication for his FAS/FAE, it is working well for him and I'm happy he can sit and just play, sing songs, watch a movie, and just breath. He was so busy he would just bounce off the wall and keep going. Not good for his little body! He is such a joy, he will make you laugh till it hurts.

As for me. I'm glad that I made the best of our first Christmas without Justin, The next thing will be his birthday! March 30th, he will of been 22 years old.

He was such a small little guy, he looked like a bird when he was born... white fussy hair... he was 1 of my best babies.... never would cry.... laughed..... was Tiffany's baby she always said.... He was a joy.... He was loved.... I feel SO lucky to have had him for 21 years, If tomorrow God said.... you can have him but in 21 years I have to take him back.... go through all this again, I would do it. Not even think about it. I loved him, We all loved him, And we will always love him, He will never leave our hearts. I have a perfect photo of him inside of me. His voice, his smile, his love.

I am so lucky to have what I have, I don't think I thank God enough for it. But I should, I hope you have someone or some ones who love you. I hope you had a year that was filled with joy, hope, peace and love.

The photo is of Justin and I, Nothing special, just us hanging out over a Diet Pepsi & Me a Dr. Pepper :>)

Hugs,

Melonie

So This is Love

2008-12-25T19:09:00.001-08:00

I hope your day was as wonderful as ours! We had a great Christmas, ate tooooo much, took a nap, ate some more. Aliana is just so much fun, she is a joy, she is an amazing young lady. And yes she is only 12....... but looks so much older. Boy her Dad is going to have his hands full.

Wishing all of you the best. We are trying to get 3 of the kids well, they are sick with the flu :(:(

Hugs, Melonie

Merry Christmas

2008-12-23T18:46:00.001-08:00

Today she said " Me no orphanage Me Family" Huhhhhhhh.:) And just smiled at me and said Yes. I said Yes....

2008-12-13T16:17:00.000-08:00

Alianas favorite sibling...... who would of thought, the terror of the bunch LOL LOL Mr. Maxim.

She really is such a joy.

Busy

2008-12-13T16:08:00.000-08:00

We have been busy...... Had dinner with Less work on Tuesday night. Had a Christmas party to take all of the children too at our fire station where we live. We no longer need to have Christmas on the 25Th they had it today. Our community is so good to us. The ladies went a little over the top this year. The kids got tons of gifts and had a great time. And they got to each pick out a gift for Dad & Mom. How nice huh..... I hope your home is filled with warm hugs, gooey kisses and the spirit of Christmas.
We have much to be grateful for :)
Hugs, Melonie

Home !!!!!!

2008-12-10T19:56:00.000-08:00

SORRY, We have been so busy to say the least. Aliana is doing great. She is just a sweet girl. She is having the time of her life. She has never done or seen so much. I keep asking her if she would like to e-mail or call Estonia and she has 1 time since we arrived home ??? I offer but she will just say no. I have some great photos to post, will try and do it this weekend.
Happy Day :)
Hugs,
Melonie

Going Home :>)

2008-12-03T08:15:00.001-08:00

At 6am Tallinn time the cab will take us to the airport. We have the visa and are redy for lift off.
Thank you God.....
Their is no place like home :):)
Love to allllllllllllllllllllllllllll..........................................
Melonie & Aliana

What do you do!!!!

2008-12-02T07:25:00.000-08:00

When you are board......take pictures LOL

Oh and the egg????? ask Aliana, I have not a clue.

December 2008

2008-11-30T08:48:00.000-08:00

Hi,
Hope you all are well. We are sick with a little bug :) Les made it home Friday :) We get her Visa on Wednasday and fly home on Thursday... weather permitting!!
Cant wait to get back to life as we knew it plus 1 :)
After christmas we will close Alianas blog. I will print off all of it for her and put it in a book. So she may see what things we had to do and overcome to make this adoption a realitiy, not just for her but for us.

We will have a new Blog for our family, not sure what we will call it yet but we will see.

In January I will be starting a new group in the town we live in along with Kirby Funeral (Mary) the owner, its called Matters of the Heart, its dedicated to our son Justin, is a closed group where people can come and share the pain you feel after someone you love dies. Its so people can share in a private setting there private, personal, pain with others who have lost as we have.

Im excited about this, and hope it will spread to other communities.

I want to thank you all for watching our family grow through the wonderful world of adoption:)

Hugs, Melonie

Bad News

2008-11-29T01:27:00.000-08:00

That paper that cost me $130.00 to get translated, the one in Russian that tels me a story. The story of why Alianas parent dont have her. You know that one. Is a sad story for the children.
It filled me with many emotions, and then I became angry, and then I thought of my own life and how at times I have fallen short of being a good parent. I thought of the world where we live, and how its not fare for us to judge another. On our adopting from Estonia yahoo group its been a week of TRASH. And I have put my own 2 cents into it, so Im at fault for acting like trash too. It makes me sick. And then I think of allllll of the good this adoption has been for my family.
And I have no controll over others just myself, I wont be a part of that group anylonger, Im better than all of that. But I see people differently now and I wont encourage others to donate to some places who say they help children.
I wish every family a happy adoption, to give love to another but to give life to a child in a EE orphanage is very rewarding to say the least. My your heart goes out to the families who struggle with funds in the time we see so many others who have lost a home or job. I encourage everyony to make a donation to help bring a child home. You could make a difference even if its $20.00.
You can pay it to the agency they are using. Just request it to go the the ???? Family for this child.
Hugs,
Melonie

GOOD NEWS

2008-11-29T00:51:00.000-08:00

Les is home, 2 days later :( Poor les,,,,, He called at like 2 am in Estonia. We got to go to the orphanage where Sasha, Nhikko & Max was adopted from. I was able to get some photos for other families who are in the process of doing an adoption. Three to be correct, I know when we were waiting I would of just gave an arm for a glance at our boys. So it was a nice suprise to 2 of them, they had no idea!!!!!
If you look at some Estonia blogs you will see them :) As for me Im sick, dont know what but my throat and chest is killing me. Just great huh....
Can anyone tell me the fastest way for my husband to send me some money is????? I had a few things that were more than we could of known... any help would be great:)
Melonie

Medical

2008-11-27T21:30:00.000-08:00

Off to get her physical done. Then all that is left to do is get her visa and we can go home. Les had a little issue with his plane, had to do an emergency landing in Holland. Hes still not home :(:(
Hugs, Melonie

Hi

2008-11-27T03:49:00.001-08:00

Just some photos, Aliana today, Les and I with her Mother, Anr the going away party.

Les left at 7.55 am He is on his way home to the rest of our family!!!!

Wishing all of you a Happy Thanksgiving.

Hugs, Melonie & Aliana

Sorry been busy

2008-11-26T03:02:00.000-08:00

Sorry, have been busy. The paperwork was a mess!!!! not the agencys fault. Just a mix up on what form I should of filled out on the 2nd child same I-600. Now Estonia is a hague country so it is now a 800 form you will do.

What a mess and a nightmare, The embassy and the consular was amazing to say the least and very positive. I cant thank them enough.

Now, Les will leave on Thursday to go home. the snow has stopped and is melting. The weather is nice but cool.

Aliana is just great. Tiffany will want to keep her in Kansas with her. She likes to keep things in order, dishes, bed, everything must be put away. And she loves to play uno :)

This has been so stressful, so fun, so long, so sad, so happy. I have had many emotions while here. I have seen the pain in her Mothers face, shed tears together, been greatful she is happy for Aliana and mad for not being the parent she should of been. But Im not her judge, I dont know her struggles in life and I know she knew that Aliana would be loved.

We were able to buy a bed for the orphanage and some other item for the new baby they will receive soon.

We were able to spend the night in her world and 2 days. We have seen and lived first hand the love these women have for the children. It was so nice just to be, be a part of what we as americans take and never think twice. It makes you know how lucky you are, her world is consumed of 1 pr. of jeans, 6 tops, no sock, 1 bra, no underware, 1 pr. of shoes, a coat that was very used, and stuffed animals, a photo book and some papers.

If I ever whine about what I dont have. Just tell me to hush,,,,,,,,
We are glad this adoption is over and eager to get home. We will go to the Doctor on Friday and then pick up her visa on Tuesday. Fly home on Thursday 7.55 am !!!!!

If I get her passport and visa on Frday I will try and get a flight home sooner. If not we will have to wait.

Im so thankful for all people have done to help us get her home. We could not of done it without you. How do you properly Thank someone for Money, Thousands, How do you give life to another when you have lost a life, someone so close to your heart, how do you med the broken bridges, how do we thank our friends and church family who have helped us so much this year, how do we help our other children when they have gained and lost as we have.

How do we Thank God, He knows our pain and our Joy, He knows our Hearts, He is so good to us. The next year will bring big change in out lifes, some will understand and others wont. Some will be happy, some will be sad. We asked God to make a way for her, now we ask God for a way for us to live, to lift some of our pain and allow us to be happy in all our sadness.

I Thank God for all of you,
All or love from Estonia,
Les, Melonie & Aliana

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow

2008-11-24T03:55:00.000-08:00

And it did just that !!!! Its a mess here. No one is working today. And all the flights are delayed for days... So dont know when Les will get home to the boys. Went to the Embassy today and they helped us with this paperwork mess. Very nice Consular:) Not the agencys fault, just a wrong date! God is so good. He had it all fixed for us before we hit the door:) Thank You GOD......

Hugs, Melonie, Les, Aliana

Looks like snow

2008-11-23T04:55:00.001-08:00

This photo was taken about 3 hours ago, now you cant even see this outside. Igor came by for a paper, he was even in ah over the weather. Les left us at 11.30 to go to the airport, hope his plane took off okay. Its a white out, is amazing:)

Please pray the Monday will come and we will have this paperwork resolved. I have 8 days only to get it done.

Love to all,

Melonie & Aliana

Love this....Thanks Queen Sarah

2008-11-22T07:48:00.000-08:00

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> Things you should believe
>
>
> A Birth Certificate shows we were born
>
> A Death Certificate shows we died
>
> Pictures show we lived!
>
> Have a seat...Relax. ..And read this slowly.
>
> I Believe...
> Just because two people argue,
> Doesn't mean they don't love each other.
> And just because they don't argue,
> Doesn't mean they do love each other.
>
> I Believe...
>
> We don't have to change friends if
> We understand friends change.
>
> I Believe.....
> No matter how good a friend is, they're going to
> hurt
> You every once in a while and you must forgive them
> for that.
>
> I Believe...
> True friendship continues to grow, even over
> The longest distance. Same goes for true love.
>
>
> I Believe...
> You can do something in an instant
> That will give you heartache for life.
>
> I Believe...
> it's taking me a long time
> To become the person I want to be.
>
> I Believe...
> You should always leave loved ones with
> Loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
>
> I Believe...
> You can keep going long after you think you
> can't.
>
> I Believe...
> We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we
> feel.
>
> I Believe...
> Either you control your attitude or it controls you.
>
> I Believe...
> Heroes are the people who do what has to be done
> When it needs to be done, regardless of consequences.
>
> I Believe...
> Money is a lousy way of keeping score.
>
> I Believe...
> My best friend and I can do anything or nothing
>
> And have the best time.
>
> I Believe...
> Sometimes the people you expect to kick you
> When you're down will be the ones to help you get
> back up.
>
> I Believe...
> Sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be
> angry,
> But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
>
> I Believe...
> Maturity has more to do with what types of
> experiences you've had
> And what you've learned from them, and less to do
> With how many birthdays you've celebrated.
>
> I Believe...
> It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others;
> Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself..
>
> I Believe...
> No matter how bad your heart is broken,
>
> The world doesn't stop for your grief.
>
>
>
> I Believe...
> Our background and circumstances may have influenced
> who we are,
> But we are responsible for who we become.
>
> I Believe...
> You shouldn't be so eager to find
> Out a secret. It could change your life forever.
>
> I Believe...
> Two people can look at the exact same
> Thing and see something totally different..
>
> I Believe...
> Your life can be changed in a matter of
> Hours by people who don't even know you.
>
> I Believe...
> Even when you think you have no more to give, when
> A friend cries out to you - you will find the
> strength to help.
>
> I Believe...
> Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent
> human being.
>
> I Believe...
> The people you care about most in life are taken from
> you too soon.
>
> I Believe.....
> You should send this to all of the people you believe
> in, I just did.
>
> 'The happiest of people don't necessarily
> have the best of everything;
> They just make the most of anything

Hi

2008-11-22T07:12:00.001-08:00

Just having fun, Les will go home on Sunday. She will miss him:) She is fond of him.. the feeling is the same. And she got new boots. Oh wait till you see the ones she picked out, not my first choice!!

Hugs, Us

Snow in Estonia

2008-11-21T10:08:00.000-08:00

We were busy today but had time to walk and play in the snow!!!! She likes to throw snow balls at her Dad:):)

Pray

2008-11-21T08:50:00.000-08:00

Pray right now, I cant say why, she is fine and so are we. BUT some papers are not right on our end and we will have no answers before Monday. Its a matter on MONTHS of paperwork. This is not good. It is a matter of when our approval was to adopt 2 children.

God is on the throan, just Pray:(:(
Les & Melonie

I cant stay in Estonia for months, the adoption is complete. I will have to stay!!!!!

Help

Houston we have our package

2008-11-20T11:04:00.000-08:00

THANK YOU GOD!!!!!

No wait of 15 days, we got the girl and the birth certificate....

She is all that and more....

Hugs, Les & Melonie

In Narva

2008-11-19T08:59:00.000-08:00

Went to court but no answer, she wanted us to wait 15 days....NOT will have a answer at 4 pm Thursday. Please pray for us. This is not Tallinn, we are out of sorts right now. we are at the orphanage for the night. they are very nice. invited us to stay. Aliana is the new spelling she choose. she is everything and more!
God blessed us again,
Les & Melonie

Awwww Sleep

2008-11-18T04:59:00.000-08:00

we got some much needed sleep. Before and after, plus a shower!!! Off to Narva at 8.30:) Wish us luck, I'm told we will have to stay the night:( We went and did some food shopping. Thank you Kris, last night we got in too late for the bank, so we used little of the money you sent me. We had some pizza and DR. PEPPER !!!!!!! Last time I was here no DR. I'm in heaven.

Hugs, Les & Melonie

In Estonia

2008-11-17T09:51:00.000-08:00

Yes, We are here:)
And yes we are going to bed.
had an easy flight just long!
no troubles at all..... well except Les had to sit alone 1 flight. it was short.
hugs, Melonie

The Awwwww of Alina

2008-11-08T20:10:00.000-08:00

Many of you dont know the wonder of this adoption. So before we leave we have a few things we find important to share.
On 12/03/06 we left to adopt Sasha & Nhikko.
We arrived in Estonia 12/04/06
We leave with Alina 12/04/08 to come home. The time difference will put us home on 12/04/08
2 years to the date we will of adopted 4 children from Estonia. Never been done. This adoption was done on grants, garage sale money, gifts from others. To total it up is 10,500.00 :>) We will have to pay for her exit fees and food. $1500.00 I would say!!!! I stress to you not to let money be your reason not to adopt. Get creative and pray. I told everyone I knew that if this adoption was what we were called to do God would provide. And as you see he did, in every way. We as a family have lost and been through so much, yes!!!! But we have not let this be an end to what we think is important. The gift of life, love & a family. How can you argue with that. She knows we are coming, she is excited to say the least, and blowing up my email. I'm just sorry it has taken 12 years for her to have a family.

So I ask all of you, have you prepared you hearts for your adoption, have you hit your knees and ask God to provide for your adoption, are you saving and cutting costs. Did your tithing get payed first this week. Be humble in your asking and don't give up. He is an on time God!!!

May all of your dreams of adoption come true.
Hugs, Melonie

We are ready

2008-11-07T17:46:00.000-08:00

I think.......I hope....... Oh, who knows! I think if we didn't have the boys to worry about I would be better prepared. Tiffany ( not our daughter) will be here at the house and then we will farm out 2 to a friend.
This will be a long stay for me. We leave on 11/16 Les will return that next Sunday and Alina and I will return on 12/04 unless we can exit the country quicker. It cold, dark and Ill be board. Taking a lap top and some movies. and some small games for Alina and I to play.
I'm hoping to make a visit to a very special boy:) And hope that Alina and I can visit him and take photos for this special family. Please say a extra prayer for this to happen. I'm very eager to help and give hope to this family! Plus give him his photo book and a gift!

I'm eager to get this adoption over with. Come home and go see Tiffany & Briana! I miss them just awful. I am feeling the wow of life right now! And I am feeling lost with Justin gone. Each day I am reminded how much the little things in life don't matter anymore. Pick your battles, let the little crap go, live life like tomorrow wont come. I have a friend who lost her son 8 yrs. ago, she is a wonderful source of support! She saves me when I lay in that ditch.

I would like to know from all of you who read my Blog. how many have lost a child? PLEASE do this privately, no one needs to know your business. Its very unnatural to have a child pass away before you do.

I have a good friend who lost his son on his 3rd tour. It has just been a year on the 9th. He has been sick all week long. And its not the flu. Would you all pray for Robert, He sure could use it.
Well, I'm off to bed!!!!! Hugs to you and yours,
Melonie

ITS DARK

2008-11-03T17:46:00.000-08:00

Have I told all of you how much I hate daylight savings:>( Do you want to hear my theory on it. It so the Doctors can pass out more depression meds and we all can OVER EAT!!!!!!
I always put on 5 lbs. in the winter, I must have been a squrrel in my past life. Because I can pack it away:)
Its dark at like 5.30..... grrrrrr......ggggrrrrrggggrrrggrgrrgrgrg
I HATE IT. So how much or what do you do in this wonderful time. My children all have attitudes today, I'm a grouch, my Husband is tired. and Ill say it again ITS DARK AT 5.30
Did I tell you I'm not ready to go to Estonia yet. Me, the person who has had 4 weeks and I'm still not ready?
Gina, Help!!!!!!!! I'm the person who is packed for months and I'm not even dusted the luggage yet!!!!!! Help.

Bye, Mel

Why not post!!!

2008-11-01T18:25:00.000-07:00

You know the saying " somethings are better left unsaid" Well now is forsure one of those times. For you who have done a international adoption you will understand. Dont share and dont tell ANYTHING that may change your home study... I find that when I get ready to leave my country and go to another I become VERY AWARE of what I am leaving. Besides my dryer.... crunch crunch:>)
So, When I come back from Estonia I will be happy to share some news. BUT not before:) So now that all of you are wondering what we are up too. You will just have to wait and read!
The first thing you are going to think is Are we moving. No but we could be buying another home? Did we get a new van? I hope it will be blue! Is Les pregnant, no but we are still trying!!!!! We found Max's twin... nope, God only allows 1 Max per family! Thank you God:)
On to some fun news. Our church is having a new LARGE building built that I'm so excited about. With a big kitchen in it, and a fellowship hall.
Well I'm off to bed so hugs to you and yours!!!
Melonie

Texas Photos

2008-10-31T20:11:00.000-07:00

Just a few that we took. its was a nice trip:)

Count Down

2008-10-31T19:47:00.000-07:00

We have 16 days before we leave. And the fun has just started I'm sure. Sasha, Dylan, Les & Myself had the flu this week...oh what fun. have done NOTHING to even start packing. Got my airline tickets in the mail...done.
Got gift for orphanage...done. Have a sitter for 2 of the children.... now for Max & Sasha... the really busy ones: Still on the look out for someone. I know someone will slow down so I can corner them and ask them ...lol lol lol. I'm not ready for this trip at all. Anyone have a lap top they want to give me...hint hint. So I may watch movies and check my email 50 times a day!!!
I don't sound excited to be going but I truly am. I just hate the LONG DAYS.... Alina and I will venture out and enjoy the sights. When I went for Max he would cry when I looked at his coat. He was not leaving me or his room.
Hugs, Melonie

For All

2008-10-31T17:11:00.000-07:00

To my sisters in the Lord... There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance, not at what she did, not how unfair life is, or at who made you do it. She has to just look at herself in all her glory and imperfection. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? Or have you made up in your mind that she is just messed up. Before you make this mistake, take a closer look. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom, someone who has been chosen by God to go through things that have made her stronger. Think of all the great women in the Bible: Mary Magdalene, Ruth and Naomi, the woman with an issue of blood, and Esther, to name a few. Mary was a prostitute, a very uneasy woman. But by the time Jesus was done with her, she was His closest follower. Esther was unfortunate in marrying an abusive man, but by the time God was done with her, she had married one of the wealthiest men i n the land. Women are so quick to beat the next one down instead of trying to hold her up. Before you wonder, ' What's up with her?' ask yourself, 'What's up with me?' That woman could be my mother, sister, aunt, in-law, stepmother, niece, grandmother, great-grandmother, neighbor, friend, or co-worker, etc. That woman could be ME. Women are the carriers of life, not the channels of death. Let's build and encourage each other, as did Ruth and Naomi. Pass this to all the women in your life. Encourage and love, forgive and forget, and trust that the woman that receives this will be touched in some way. May the peace and love of Christ be upon you!

My Best Friend

2008-10-28T12:12:00.000-07:00

Only since 5th grade:) She came ALLLLL the way from Michigan for Justins funeral. I didnt even know she was at the church till the end. She has 2 boys who are in the military. They will leave her home state soon. Please pray for her. She is an amazing Mother, a good friend and a person who loves deep.

For all of the families who have a life in the military I think you have strength like no others. And I just dont know how you do it.

Since I know she reads my Blog.... Dana, I love you. Thank you for just being:>)
Melonie

Back from Texas

2008-10-27T06:51:00.000-07:00

Texas is a big state!!!!!!! I never realized it. Houston is so big. I moved from Kansas City Kansas to Arkansas so I thought I new what a big city was NOT.... We are back and packing for our trip to go get Alina.
We will fly out on the 16 of November. I will not be home for Thanksgiving but Les will. We will have someone come and stay with 2 of the boys at the house and then farm out the others to church members or friends.
I'm feeling lost this week. Justin is on my heart so heavy, I ask for you to pray for us as a family.

Hugs, Melonie

Got Milk!!!! No, but got Court

2008-10-17T16:01:00.000-07:00

YES!!!!
We have court. November the 19th. Each month at this time we have exciting things going on in our life. When I would much rather berry my head in the sand box, I cant! For I have important things to do.
August the 18 is when we lost Justin. That first month was WOW. I have not planned for each of these wonderful things to occure every month at this time but the Lord has a devine plan. And it is falling into play. Lots of things are taking change, big plans are in the making and it is all going to be okay.
To let go is hard for us, to live again is even harder, but to love is so easy:>) We all can wish for good things to come. But when they do It reminds me of Gods Grace.
For the families who still wait. I hope you get your call soon. She will never replace what we lost. But shes going to be a WONDERFUL distraction.
Hugs to you and yours,
Melonie

Hi

2008-10-16T21:55:00.000-07:00

Have been in the Hospital with Nhikko. Hes been sick. Home now and feeling better. We leave for Texas on Saturday! Just me and the husband of mine. We will be back on Wednesday around dinner.
Talk to you all then!!!
Hugs, Mel
Love you, Mom & Les

From Sarah...Thanks Girl!!!

2008-10-13T18:33:00.000-07:00

None of that Sissy Crap
Are you tired of those sissy 'friendship' poems that always sound good, but never actually come close to reality!
Well, here is a series of promises that actually speak of true friendship.
You will see no cutesy little smiley faces on this card- Just the stone cold truth of our great friendship.
1. When you are sad --I will jump on the person who made you sad like a spider monkey jacked up on Mountain Dew!!!!!!
2. When you are blue -- I will try to dislodge whateveris choking you.
3. When you smile -- I will know youare plotting something that I must be involved in.
4. When you're scared -- we will high tail it out of here.
5. When you are worried -- I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be until you quit whining, ya big baby!!!!
6. When you are confused -- I will use little words.
7. When you are sick --Stay away from me untilyou are well again. I don't want whatever youhave.
8. When you fall -- I'll pick you up and dust you off-After I laugh my butt off!!
9. This is my oath...I pledge it to the end. 'Why?' you may ask -- because you are my FRIEND! Friendship is like peeing your pants,everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth. Send this to 10 of your closest friends, Then get depressed because you can only think of 4.

Mr. Max

2008-10-11T19:48:00.001-07:00

Max is such a busy bee. And he is a DADDYS boy for real. He thinks that if his Daddy is home he should hang on his leg, arm, neck....

you get the picture. He had such fun playing on the back deck with HIS Daddy. He even thought he was a big boy and wear big boy boots. Right Mom..... Right. He is sooo funny. If you are looking for the new weight loss program I recommend a Max. He will keep you moving.

I hope you all are doing well, Fall is my favorite season, I enjoy being outside as much as I can.

We are leaving for Texas on 10/18 it will be nice to see Scott & Family. Its been so long, we could do for a break and some time just the 3 of us lol lol lol. I, yes I am not able to leave Nhikko. We even have a Nurse coming to stay with the children & I still cant leave him. He is just that little guy you have to write a book about first, and Ive not got through chapter 1 yet :(:( So he will be going with. And he got his new car seat. Wait till you see the monster. IT AWESOME...

I have not kept my Blog up and feel bad about it but I have needed time to breath. We are doing fine, still excited on the much delayed Alina adoption ... Narva is on Narva time.... slow!!!!! She has sent me some emails and she is ready to come home. And we a feeling the same way.

We want to sell our home but the economy is the pits, so we will wait for spring. Dylan will Graduate 2009 and then we can get busy and decide what our next move in life will be.

We might just sell some acres and keep the house and move to flat land, who knows!!

Hugs to you and yours, Melonie

Artic Princess

2008-09-28T09:42:00.001-07:00

Ever want to help a family bring a child home. PLEASE consider helping this family. You can go to this blog www.myarcticprincess.blogspot.com and read about her and how you can help bring her home!!!! And get some great deals on some great items. I just did wont too.
Hugs to all, Melonie

Maxs hair cute

2008-09-26T18:53:00.001-07:00

Maxim has a new look! And the little girls at school just love it :) Now for Daddy.... hes not so happy with it. I think he just looks amazing. He has grown into a Happy, smart, funny bundle of joy. Did I mention hes VERY LOUD at 6a.m.

Hugs, Melonie

Received an email from Alina. She is well and waiting.

WOW

2008-09-16T07:35:00.000-07:00

We got a grant. It is for 4500.00 for our air and lodging. God is SOOOOOO GOOD!!!!!!!!
This has been the worst year of our life as a family. And through it all we have praised God and knew he would provide for us. And as you can see he has. Again:>)
Hugs, Melonie

Adoption Sale

2008-09-09T06:47:00.000-07:00

Ive been busy, trying to get all the things together for Alina's sale Thursday & Friday. It been a nice distraction and I feel like I'm getting something done. Her room is a mess right now and I need to get her bags packed soon.
My friend Gina GOT COURT lucky duck. Oh how I wish she and I would be in Estonia the same time :(:(
Its cooling off in Arkansas, The the fair is on Saturday and we will take the boys. Sasha loves to ride the roller coaster. And max will love all the animals.
Life is good and we are trying to get back to normal.
Hugs, Melonie

For the ones left

2008-09-07T07:43:00.000-07:00

This is a great devotion, I still think of the first time I saw Alina. She was so nervours, She told me she had been up since 6am that morning. She was so fragil at heart, when I hugged her she was hard and cold. She was on guard. She warmed up to me and then we were able to talk. ( Through Igor) It was such fun to see the silly happy side of her:>)
Many children will never be adopted. We can pray for them, we can adopt an orphanage as a church group. We can send hope to them by our letters of love and hope!
Hugs, Melonie

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.”
Proverbs 13:12 (NIV)
Devotion:
Our whole table was doubled over with laughter. The meeting had begun somberly with formal introductions, but all it took was a little fun to make my diminutive tablemates relax into our time together. Last summer on our team’s trip to Ecuador with Compassion International, we had the opportunity to share lunch and craft time with a group of elementary school aged children at a Compassion project near Quito . Each child had shyly introduced themselves with their beautiful Spanish name. When we got to one shiny-haired, sparkly-eyed boy, however, he announced his name loudly—“Stephen Segal!” The whole group erupted with laughter.

Dr. Wess Stafford, in his book Too Small to Be Ignored, says this about poverty, “More than any other emotion, the poor feel overwhelmed. Without financial resources, shelter, food, education, justice, or skills to address their plight, they succumb to the downward spiral that leads to hopelessness and despair. That, my friend, is the essence of poverty.” As president of Compassion, Dr. Stafford has seen the most extreme poverty and its effects on children all over the world. He has watched the light leave children’s eyes, seen their shoulders begin to slump, and their hearts begin to believe that all hope is completely beyond them.

As I watched these children laugh, I was struck with how little it takes to restore hope. A sponsor’s small, monthly donation of money is only part of the story. There are many other means of building hope in Compassion’s ministry. I entered a home later that day and delighted as a young girl brought out her treasured stack of letters from her sponsor. Each of those letters was a reminder that someone else in the world loves her, believes in her and has found her valuable. The kind words and smiles from the Ecuadorian Compassion staff also nourished the souls of their small students. I hope even their visitors from America stoked the fragile fires of hope in those children’s hearts.

There are children all around us that need an infusion of hope. They are longing for a kind look or an affirming word. It doesn’t take much to rekindle hope in a child, but it does require paying attention to those in need. Most of all, they need to hear about the God who created them and who cherishes them as His own special child. The children in Ecuador had heard The Message and received the hope that would forever save their inner selves from the ravages of poverty even though they still faced great physical need in their communities each day.

Before we left that day, I asked the children what they wanted to be when they grow up. “I want to be a policeman,” my precious sponsored child replied. “I want to be a teacher,” said another. One stunning little girl told me she wanted to be a fashion designer. Tears filled my eyes as I hugged these children good-bye. My heart was full, too, with the dreams and hopes of an amazing group of children.
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Dear Lord, I want to be tuned in to helping restore hope in a hopeless child’s life. Will you bring me a divine appointment with a child today who needs a loving smile or a kind word? Help me to be ready to share your grace and love. In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Waiting for Court

2008-09-06T19:14:00.000-07:00

Got some news. Our agency fee has been paid by 2 very nice people. I cant give the names but know it was an amazing email to say the least. I have much to be thankful for. Great family, friends and a church. We as a family all agreed to get Alina home as soon as we can. I think it will be a Hugh relief. As for this blog I will no longer post about our son who passed away. We will be making a separate blog for friends and family to share and connect with each other.
I want to Thank God for all who have sent flowers, emails, cards, money for his services... Thank you is all I have to offer. I hope that I will be given the opportunity to give to someone else in a time of loss. This is truly the worst thing we have ever gone through.
We are excited and grateful for the day when Alina will be with us. She is excited to become a part of our life and we are just as excited for her to be our Daughter.
I hope that all of you know that in times such as this we still need to remember we have to live, we still have to go on, we are still a family and our life is not over. As a mother who lost a child I cant ever explain the pain I feel. For my children, I love you, for Justin.... Not goodbye;.) Ill see you later!!!!
Hugs, to you and yours...Melonie